Have you ever submitted a proposal for a prospect… but didn’t want to get the job?
I have.
It may surprise some, but sometimes you just don’t have a good feeling about somebody, know what I mean?
Choices, Choices
When this happens, you have two options:
1. Lie and say you’re not available, or you don’t do the specific assignment they want.
2. Submit a losing proposal.
I’m not a good liar. And besides, that sort of thing just leads to bigger problems later on down the road.
Which leaves us with… writing a proposal we purposely don’t want to get approved.
How NOT To Write A Winning Proposal
This isn’t as easy as simply doing the opposite of writing a winning proposal.
For example, you wouldn’t want to intentionally put a lot of typos, grammatical errors, or misspellings in your proposal. You still have a reputation to protect, after all.
There are more insidious ways of sabotaging your own proposal, without making you look like a bad freelancer.
For example:
- Quote an unreasonably high price. If you publish fixed rates for your services, then you won’t be able to do this. I publish a starting fee, so I quote a fee for every project. This allows me some flexibility to quote high when necessary.
- Request a very relaxed time table. Another way you could sabotage your proposal is by requesting to work on a timetable that would probably not work with your prospect’s schedule. For example, three months is usually way too much time for a copywriter to put together a sales page.
- Make the project sound more complicated than it actually is. Don’t make anything up, but do get into minute details and hope that this gives your prospect a feeling of overwhelm.
Of course, you could always take the high road and go for…
Option Number 3
Go straight out and say you’re not interested in the project. The way I see it, you don’t need to even give a reason for this. Just be clear and straight to the point. I’m thinking, something like:
“Thank you for your interest in working with me. However, I am unable to send you a proposal for this project.”
It would be nice if you could then refer the prospect to a couple of other freelancers who may want to make a pitch for the assignment. That makes the prospect feel that you have their interests in mind, even if you can’t support them yourself.
What Do You Think?
Did I miss any other options for handling a situation like this? Can you think of better ways of responding to a prospect whom you’re not interested in working with? Do share!









I usually just take option number three and tell them straight up that I can’t work with them right now. And you’re right, at that point no other explanation is needed. They usually just say “okay” and move on.
Sometimes I provide a list of service providers I would recommend or alternative methods for getting their project done so I don’t feel like I’m leaving them hanging in any way.
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I’ve also recently stuck with option three with the addition of a few links to other local firms. The client responded with a request for me to send him the physical address of those designers since he didn’t do the “internet thing” and he wanted to just pop in on them. I knew then that I made the right choice!